Games People Can Play

A roll of the dice could help open up communication.

Ellen DeGeneres claims that “nothing is better than staying at home with a bunch of friends playing games.” In their movie, “The Break-Up,” Jennifer Aniston and Vince Vaughn can’t commit to each other by are fully dedicated to their weekly game night.

Yes, it’s time to log off the computer, dig up that old Monopoly set and invite people over: Board games are hot. The proof? Although the toy industry overall is in a slump, sales of board games jumped 18% last year.

What does playing board games have to do with relationships? A lot, actually. This retro-hip activity is a fun excuse to meet new neighbors, hang out with old friends, encourage quality family time or spice up a singles dinner party. It’s also a great way to gain a little insight about those you think you know: Who knew that your shy sister-in-law was so competitive or that your new boyfriend was a sore loser?

Want to give it a try? Here’s how to host your own game night:

Start by considering the crowd. If you are hosting a singles evening, you will want a game or two that encourages flirting. Got a group of couples to entertain? Have games that allow them to team up and compete.

Next, decide how many you’ll invite. First-timers should keep the guest list to a manageable five or six people.

Then, head to a toy or super store, and be prepared to peruse for a while: Because of the popularity of board games, there’s a big selection. Pick up three games: one that‘s simple and easy to grasp (think childhood favorites), one that calls for more concentration and strategy, and one that encourages loud, boisterous team play. Keep in mind that if you have mostly singles or an odd number, you’ll need games that don’t call for even teams.

Separate the three games into stations, be ready to explain the object of each, and let your guests pick which they’d like to play.

Finally, don’t forget that your guests will need sustenance to keep up their energy. Supply finger food, drinks and lots of napkins.

Denise Hughes

USA Today

Sept. 10^th, 2006